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Women
Between Integrity and Deviation
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Women
share men the physical as well as the spiritual roles of life in the
process of human integration. Both
men and women give much of their capabilities to the movement of
existence, the vitality of love, the creativity of knowledge, and the
spirituality of giving.
Talking
about women’s morals within the mental & the behavioral spheres
is long and divergent. It
seems that women are to blame for their moral straightness and
deviation through the balance they make in the practical control over
the issue of the veil, sex
and in running their life in general as
if they were a devil, a curse, and an object of seduction.
Yet,
the balanced view of the real study of the present and the past human
deviation, affirms that men play the most efficient role in drawing
the character of women towards the negative moral side, so as to
become objects in men’s world rather than human beinge sharing men
their life, doll they play with rather than human beings they
interact with, an object of seduction
rather than an identity with various capabilities. Anyhow, it
is needless to say that women are not merely an object of sex, and
their lives in their different faces are not dominated by sex.
Unfortunately enough, some people view women from this
perspective ; they deprive them of the right
of learning, creation & participation in the process of evolution
of man’s life.
A
woman is a human being by
all means, the fact that obliges us to prepare her for the process of
positive human evolution. Also,
men’s humanity obliges us to prepare them for establishing a life
rich with knowledge, activity and openness
to creation.
Viewing
the matter from the moral perspective, we have to make a thorough
study of the cooperation between men and women in founding the basis
of morals at the sexual, social, and political levels.
Deviating from the right way is the responsibility of either of
them. Both share this
responsibility especially in the action & the reaction .In
this sense, we have to reform both of them and plan for the
construction of their mentality which is supposed to be open to
integration & balance rather than exploitation, and based on the
various positive values of each and not on power & weakness.
God
created women from the deep self of men and maintained affection &
mercy between them. Women have rights & duties, and if men are
superior to them, they are so because of the
various organizational roles
men tend to play.
By
creating us in this way, God wanted us to lead a life full with
affection & mercy so that the marital experience, as a distinct
human relationship, can be the beginning of a great experience to an
intimate relationship based on mutual respect.
Consequently, man is not supposed to abuse his right and role.
An ideal marital relation occurs if they accept each other
mentally and emotionally. Mutual
respect & understanding help to maintain
harmony between their thinking; with affection and love, their
feelings will blend.
As
affection has its mental and emotional dimensions, mercy has its
intellectual & practical ones.
In the light of these facts, we can see a new woman as a
female, mother & human in both creativity & responsibility.
We can also see a new man as a male, father, and human – a
man who accepts woman’s superiority and creativity and a woman who
accepts man’s creativity in what he excels.
By
accepting each other, all the matter will be a competition for the
sake of perfection & life.
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