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Q: Since fashion and the newest styles have become
a controversial issue, what is the standard legitimate outfit that can
be authorized?
A: Islam doesn’t complicate things; for styles are
subjected to the social attitudes people are usually living. It was
believed that Muslims were required to wear a special costume so as to
be identified and distinguished from the infidels who were dominating
during that time, In this sense, when Imam Ali (a.s.) was asked to
explain the Prophet’s saying “dye your gray hair and don’t look
like the Jews” whether it means that we have to dye our hair, he
replied that this command was called for when Muslims were few but
when they increased in number, there was no need for making them
physically different from the others. In addition, some jurists may
have noticed that the Prophet’s saying “Shave your moustaches, avoid
your beards, and don’t appear like the Jews” is not a constant and
permanent instruction. It was legislated when there was a need, but
since Muslims are increasing in number, this need has swept over. The
matter of wearing a standard legitimate uniform is of people’s choice,
taste, and their way of living.
Q: Some people are not convinced of the veil some
women are wearing, and see the necessity of wearing a long gown (abaya),
what is your opinion?
A: The veil includes two meanings: a covered body
in the presence of any stranger, and avoidance to all kinds of make-up
or to any means which might arouse temptations. Women are allowed to
wear any kind of clothes provided that these clothes protect them from
being exposed to licentious looks. Therefore, we say that the long
gown is not necessary as the only Muslim’s costume, since there is no
evidence of its absolute exclusivity. Gowns were worn in certain
periods of time due to certain social, religious, and political
circumstances. Any decent uniform that portrays women as humans and
not as females is indeed a legitimate dress.
A fashionable veil
Q: What do you say of some veiled women who attempt
at harmonizing between their veil and new fashions?
A: I think that this kind of veil, instead of being
a means of chastity, has become a means of arousing temptations, and
such fashion seeking veiled women are more interested in attracting
men than in being pious. Consequently, the concept of veil has been
diverted from its sacred meaning to its opposite one.
Weird clothes
Q: What is meant by weird clothes and why aren’t
they legitimate?
A: Weird clothes are those socially regarded as
unfamiliar ones especially when both men and woman wear the clothes of
the opposite sex. We all know that pants have become socially familiar
to both sexes; however, there are certain private clothes restricted
to women, and once they are worn by men they become unacceptable since
they lead to the disturbance of the social balance and to the
distortion of the psychic and mental state of the individual. Needless
to remind you of the saying: “Just as men are not allowed to wear
women’s clothes so are women.”
The Islamic characteristics of the veil
Q: What are the Islamic characteristics of the
woman’s veil?
A: The veil can be defined with respect to the
following terms:
First; the veil means a whole cover to the body
except the hands and the face, both of which some other jurists see
the necessity of an obligatory precaution in covering them. But some
other jurists and I believe that it is allowed to reveal them in
accordance with His saying: “Say to the believing women to turn
their eyes away (from temptation) and to preserve their chastity, to
cover their adornments except such as are normally displayed.”(The
Light (Nour); 31). Thus, women are
obliged to cover their bodies and to avoid what ever is transparent
and thin.
Secondly; the veil means a rejection to adornment,
God says “Stay in your homes and do not display
your finery as women used to do in the former days of Jahiliyya *.”
(The Confederate Tribes (Al-Ahzab); 33),
for the veiled woman is not allowed to appear in make- up or any other
adornments which adorn her body. Besides, she should not also wear her
clothes in a way that shows her feminine beauty instead of showing her
natural humanity. Indeed, the general convention of adornment is the
unusual appearance which a woman intends on revealing to others. The
real meaning of the veil is urging woman to appear decent, and
consequently respected as a person in her society. Islam calls upon
women to avoid being a center of display, finery, and temptation; they
are humans above all.
Furthermore, the veil of sound is regarded as
another type of veil for women. As a matter of fact, Islam does not
prevent women from speaking with men, from delivering speeches in
front of them, from cheering in the general political and social
occasions which call for openness, or from shouting in situations
which urge women to shout. But Islam does not accept that women soften
and tender their voices in a way that arouses temptations. God says: “Wives of the Prophet, you are not like
other women, If you fear Allah, do not be too complaisant in your
speech, lest the lecherous-hearted should be moved with desire” (Al-Ahzab;
32). As it seems, inclining in speech is
an additional aspect of seduction. Therefore, the jurists confirm that
both tendering and softening voices that lead to seduction are not
legitimate.
The social veil
The social veil is another essential type of the
Islamic veil, which should be seriously considered. Islam does not
approve of a man’s and a woman’s solitude, due to its dangerous and
negative consequences. Doubtlessly, such isolation might tempt both
the man and the woman to immoral deeds, and thus exposes woman’s
chastity to compromise. As a matter of fact, Islam abhors and detests
such isolation, but at the same time does not prohibit social
relations between sexes on condition that these relations lead to a
positive result rather than to sinful deeds. We infer that a woman is
to veil herself from the inside. She, herself, should know her moral
and legal limits which elevate her as a human and not as just a female
object.
The sinner’s mentality.
The sinner’s mentality means a mental adultery in
which a person virtually lives the situation of the sinner in his
sight, in his hearing, and in his touches as well, without actually
being involved in a real sexual intercourse. Islam abhors this
situation because such person not only possesses the spirit of the
sinner but also becomes alert to any exceptional circumstances to let
his desires off.
The mental veil (barrier)
Indeed, both the man and the woman are in need of a
mental veil through which they could be secure against any deviation.
Therefore, the kind of films, movies and stories that work on arousing
sexual temptations should be prohibited, for Islam abhors such means
which lead to the destruction of the internal immunity. Needless to
say that once the internal immunity is shaken, deviation becomes
inevitable.
Changes in the meaning of the veil
The veiled woman shouldn’t allow herself to behave
and to wear something which contradicts with the spiritual meaning of
the veil. For example, the veiled woman of today is attempting at
revealing, via the moving clothes and colors she wears, all her
feminist beauty, just as any other unveiled woman. As a matter of
fact, Islam does not deny woman’s right to live the feelings of her
femininity but aims at elevating her. Islam drives woman to live
according to her moral and societal values.
Q: The West accused Islam of its excessiveness
towards the conception of the veil because a veiled woman without a
full- makeup is also tempting to man?
A: This saying is, in fact, inaccurate and
illogical simply because if a woman, away from her moving and colorful
clothes, is viewed as a sex object to man, so is man to woman.
However, on the biological level, the nature of a flaming instinct
makes man instinctively desire a woman; that is why we observe that
when a man is sexually satisfied, his enthusiasm toward any other
concern is reduced. Since both woman’s and man’s nature of femininity
and masculinity gives them a natural beauty and excitation, the debate
about the veiled and the unveiled woman is inaccurate. Nevertheless,
we all agree that the beauty of both the hair and the legs gives the
unveiled woman a more attractive and seductive shape, for this reason
all kinds of media focus on these two body organs.
On the other hand, the West is different in its
beliefs and concepts. In the West, there is a belief in the absolute
freedom of women and in the notion that both men and women are free
with their bodies. Thus, nakedness has become a natural phenomenon
that meets with the philosophical and mental ideology of the concept
of freedom.
Starting from virtuousness:
Both Muslim men and women are required to be
virtuous, since virtuousness sustains them with a self- discipline
against any deviation or any immoral sexual temptation. However, an
attempt to examine the values of the East and that of the West leads
us to realize that the freedom of the sexes is more observed in the
West; both are free with their bodies. In this sense, we have to
distinguish between the path of chastity and the path of deviation as
well. This realization confuses so many people who are very
conservative and deep- rooted in eastern opinions and beliefs and at
the same time tend to follow the traditions of the West, thinking that
they are more civilized. Consequently, they will be leading a duality
in their lives which takes them to deviation and then to destruction…
Such situation is similar to when you ask someone, who is thrown in a
well full of water, to remain dry.
Q: Don’t you think that the veil might create a
state of depression to man since any single gesture may excite him?
A: Indeed, the veil can never ever be considered a
cause of man’s depression; however, there are many internal and
external reasons that lead to this state. For instance, if a man is
not sexually satisfied due to certain social and personal motivations,
he might get depressed. Moreover, if a man doesn’t find himself in the
social and political life, he might also get depressed. Accordingly,
every civilized society should adopt certain moral obligations, not
necessarily identical to those of the social and economic values that
the contemporary society adopts, for we all know how depressed a
person becomes if he is socially neglected. Needless to say, that the
morals of sex are not related to what both men and women wear.
Nevertheless, if we want to consider the Islamic
veil as a reason for depression, then what about the unveiling and
nakedness of the body? Isn’t it exciting and tempting? Don’t men
desire looking at all the body organs of the woman in the same way the
women does to man? Talking about nakedness means putting off all the
clothes which cover and protect the woman’s body. Yet the veil does
not cause depression. Depression is depression with or without the
veil.
*Jahiliyya : pre-Islamic traditions. |