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The First Sermon
In
the Name of God, the Compassionate, the Merciful
Last week the world celebrated the
mother’s and the child’s day, due to significance of the role of
the mother in raising children and their development and growth to
become the men of the future.
The
Appreciation of motherhood in Islam
Right from the beginning, and in
both the Holy Quran and the Prophet’s actions and sayings, Islam
has given the mother a status higher than the father, as to loving
or treating her with love and kindness. For mothers suffer a lot
before the child is born.
Moreover, if she is sick before
getting pregnant, she tends to get worse during pregnancy. Then her
life will be threatened when she gives birth. Then she has to nurse
and take care of the child, which restricts her freedom of movement.
That is why Allah talked
about the suffering of the mother which is not shared by the father:
“And We have enjoined on man doing of good to his parents; with
trouble did his mother bear him and with trouble did she bring him
forth; and the bearing of him and the weaning of him was thirty
months” {46:15} .On the other hand, the father has a duty
in providing for his children and in raising and educating them.
That is why Allah equated
between them when it comes to treating them kindly… Allah repeated
the word “parents” several times in the Holy Quran: And
your Lord has commanded that you shall not serve (any) but Him, and
goodness to your parents. If either or both of them reach old age
with you, say not to them (so much as) "Ugh" nor chide
them, and speak to them a generous word, while preserving
precedence for the mother since she is the one who has suffers more.
This is why the Messenger (p.) said:
“Heaven is under the feet of mothers”. Meaning that Heaven is
the reward of her endurance and patience… Certain traditions have
it that if the mother dies while giving birth she is considered a
martyr.
Imam Zein Al-Abidein says: “It is
also said that once a man came to the Messenger (p.) and asked: “I
feed my parents, carry them on my back and clean them, have I
fulfilled my duty towards them? The Prophet (p.) answered: No,
because, you are serving them in anticipation for their death while
they served you wishing you a long life”.
Imam as-Sadiq (a.s.) said that the
Prophet (p.) was asked once by a Muslim: Whom should I be kind
to?” The Prophet said your mother. He repeated it three times, and
he then said your father.
A man called Ibrahim bin Mohazzam
narrated the following story: I once quarreled with my mother and I
was cruel to her. The following day Imam as-Sadiq (a.s.) said to me:
How could you that? Don’t you know that her womb is a house that
you had lived in… and that her breast is a bowl that you drank
from? Do not do that again.
The Quran prohibited any
harm to the parents even if by words, but lower to them the wing of
humility " And, out of kindness, lower to
them the wing of humility, and say: My Lord! Bestow on them thy
Mercy even as they cherished me in childhood". This kind
of humility, does not lower man but elevates him, since it is out of
kindness.
A man came to Imam as-Sadiq (a.s.)
saying that he has embraced Islam while his mother did not, and
asked him about what he should do.
The Imam said: “See how you used
to take care of her when you and her were embracing the same
religion and multiply it”.
When he did so, the mother noticed
and asked him why. He told her: “I was ordered to do so by the
leader of this religion”. The mother asked: “Is he a
prophet?”; “No he is a son of the prophet” the man answered.
The women ended up in adopting such a religion whose morals are that
high and spiritual.
Thus, the issue of motherhood is
very fundamental in the Islamic view of the family. What we have
said so far about it implies two responsibilities: the
responsibility of children towards their parents and that of the
husband. The problem with some husbands is that they
under-appreciate motherhood... But they would act as thugs,
threatening all the time to divorce women.
It is true that Islam made
divorce in the hands of the man, but it was to be decided by his
mind and not by his whims or emotions. The Quran condemns in a very
clear way this trend when it says, that you might hate them, in the
course of talking about wives, “while Allah
has placed abundant good in them”. Therefore, do not let
feelings control your actions, but look for the common interest of
both. Threatening of divorce distorts the relationship among you,
but if you insist, then you should give her all what is due to her,
since you have promised to do so to none other than Allah, the most
Exalted .
The second point: man has to be very
careful when he chooses a mother for his children.
He has to choose a woman who is well
educated and well raised.
Beauty and money will not last.
Moreover you do not live with a check book or a painting... You live
with a spiritual and social companion. That is why the prophet
advised us to marry those who are pious in their religion.
Then when a man chooses a wife he
has to appreciate all the efforts she makes in bringing up the
children. Women too have to appreciate man’s struggle to provide
for the family… Thus, theirs is a relationship of complementing
one another. And if both husband and wife are good to one another
and to their children, Allah, the most Exalted, will bring them
together in paradise as He has promised in the Quran.
The
Second Sermon
In
the Name of God, the Compassionate, the Merciful
Condemnations for the brutal crime
of assassinating Martyr Sheik Ahmad Yassin are still being issued,
from many parts of the world, especially the European Union which
under American pressure views Hamas as a terrorist organization.
Nevertheless it sees in the assassination a violation of
international laws. At the same time, we find some countries, like
Britain, say that they are freezing the funds of the leaders of
Hamas, although in fact there is not any.
Russia, Human Rights International
Committee, Islamic Organization Conference and the Arab League have
also condemned… But did they exert any political pressure on
Israel? Did they stand in the Security Council to ask for a strong
condemnation?
They are all monitoring the American
stand which considered this act as self-defense. Thus, the American
imperial thinking is imposing its will on the world. They even ask
the Palestinians for restraint. No need for asking Israel for any
such conduct for America considers Israel as a partner in the war on
terrorism.
Israel in American’s view has the
right to kill Palestinian leaders and common civilians at will,
while the Palestinians have not even the right to retaliate because
they are “terrorists”, the fact that they are under occupation
and daily oppression notwithstanding.
The murder of Sheik Yassin is
essentially an American one although it was executed by Israeli
hands. As such no state or international organization could punish
it. The American veto is waiting for any such attempts, and this is
what actually happened. Moreover, America does not accept the trial
of its soldiers before the International Criminal Court.
Consequently, it would not allow the world to try any Israeli
murder, for it extends the same imperial privileges to Israel.
The Arab League: learning from Palestinians
We ask all the states of the Arab
League: How could we turn the Arab anger into a policy? Are they
going to study in their summit the ways to exert pressure on America
and Israel if only once, and defy the American Zionist challenge to
the Arabs and to the whole world.
No, for they are helpless, and it is
not realistic to hope for such a stand because they have given all
their cards to the Americans and Israelis… Yet they still talk
about peace and about concessions they made in the Beirut Summit
which were not respected by the Americans and Israelis. Golda Meir
used to say that there is no Palestinian people, and Sharon is
saying now: There is no Palestinian partner and that the
negotiations with them are impossible. He calls the Palestinians and
Arabs to follow the Egyptian model and accept the Israeli terms,
since they understand peace to mean surrender. But we know that the
Palestinian people, who was united by the blood of his martyrs with
Sheik Yassin in their forefront, will not surrender. New leaders
will emerge, and the struggle for freedom will continue.
The Arab Summit should learn from
the Palestinians how to take a strategic stand by both resistance
and diplomacy to embarrass the American policy that faces a growing
isolation in the world, so that the US would understand that force
does not make peace or even victory.
The Arab and Muslim peoples should
learn how to exert pressure on their regimes in a wise way that
exposes their state of helplessness … We should all learn from the
Palestinian people who will teach the enemy an unforgettable lesson
and who will not let the Zionists determine the Palestinian future.
The Arabs and Muslims have to know
where the American arrogant projects are leading to and what the
meaning of its support to the Israeli crimes is, so that there will
be a unified opposition to its imperial policies against the nation.
Iraq: The
occupation is in the back group
The situation in Iraq is still very
dangerous whether in security with respect to the other general
conditions. The future is blurred and does not promise to be stable.
The occupation still controls every
thing and even vetoes any decision the Iraqis make even in providing
services.
As for the coming stage in which the
occupation promises to give sovereignty to the Iraqis, the Americans
plan to stay behind the curtains to ensure that the interests of the
American companies is secured, in the name of the need of sign a
treaty with the new Iraq government, to ensure law and order. This
is treaty between the strong and the weak. Consequently it will keep
the real authority in the hands of the one who possesses the power
and it would legitimize the existing hegemony.
We call on the Iraqi people, whose
history is the history of many civilizations, including the Islamic
civilization that shaped its values, laws and thought, to understand
this game of nations, and not to be bitten by the same snake twice.
They have to uphold their unity to
ensure that Iraq will have a bright and unified future.
Lebanon:
self -dependence
Lebanon is still living in a state
of feuds between the top politicians that is curtailing national
reconciliation. But when the politicians reach certain
understandings and compromises,differences at the grass-root level
persist,creating several problems and inciting sectarian
partisanship.
In the meantime, the Israelis
continue to threaten Lebanon, and America continues to exert
pressures that might heighten or lessen according to the political
climate in the region.
The Lebanese should solve their own
problems, because those who are interfering in their affairs whether
regionally or internationally will only aggravate their existing
problems, planting more thorns and preventing the timely coming of
spring.
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